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  three score years and 10

  by stan livedeath in

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  yep--70 today.

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  stan livedeath

  yep--70 today
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  Hatred of Jews

  by minimus in

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  i have never understood the hatred and dislike towards jewish people.

  so many people are bothered by jewish influence.. do you have anti jewish bias?

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  i think a lot of people confuse Jews with JW's. only an "e" difference.
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  Solicitors Visit Update

  by pale.emperor in

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  in case you're not aware of my last two threads:.

  the situation that arose in that my mother has been having secret access to my daughter and refusing to tell me how she is: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5012900121935872/am-overreacting-here.

  the build up to my solicitors visit: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/6284953638666240/solicitors-appontment-tomorrow-advice-appreciated.

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  i wonder what wll happen when your ex gets d/f ?
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  Am I Overreacting Here?

  by pale.emperor in

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  let's call him "dave".. dave: hello?.

  dave: we dont have to tell you how she is.

  dave: <her mother> has custody.

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  stan livedeath

  Yep, that's exactly it. She has a non-JW boyfriend now and they sleep over at each others houses. Nobody knows because she hasn't told them. They just assume she's not going to meetings for a bit but will "come to her senses".

  well lets hope she doesnt end up --up the duff. that will give "they" something to talk about.
  
  
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  Solicitors Visit Update

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  in case you're not aware of my last two threads:.

  the situation that arose in that my mother has been having secret access to my daughter and refusing to tell me how she is: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5012900121935872/am-overreacting-here.

  the build up to my solicitors visit: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/6284953638666240/solicitors-appontment-tomorrow-advice-appreciated.

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  in the UK..quite frankly the law is is just about as unhelpful as it gets with regards to fathers in a split up. generally speaking--the kids stay with the mum. which means the kids stay with mum--in the house. Till the kids finish full time education. so--dad moves out., thereby losing his home...but still ends up paying for it. and it doesnt matter a toss whose " fault" it all was.

  the watchtower --of course--are well aware of this--and thats why so many men are PIMO--they know they have everything to lose. happened to me--happened to my son.

  add to the mix..if the mum is unable / unwilling to work...and gets social security ( AKA income support )..then dad is introduced to a whole new depth of pain....the child support agency.

  the CSA basically is a tax on the dads earnings--to offset the social security paid to the mum. but it varies according to his earnings--even though the money paid to the mum stays the same. i know men who are hit for far more than their ex--and the kids get.

  if theres a morale to the whole mess--its guys--dont get married--if you must--dont have kids CERTAINLY NOT if you are involved with a dub--that just makes a bad mess ten times worse.
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  Were These People “Demonized” or Simply Mentally Ill?

  by minimus in

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  it seems that every congregation had a problem with people being affected by the demons.

  looking back i have to wonder was it that more people were emotionally or mentally unbalanced?

  or they simply off their medications or were they in need of meds?.

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  so--angels are the best spirits money can buy ?
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  Solicitors Visit Update

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  in case you're not aware of my last two threads:.

  the situation that arose in that my mother has been having secret access to my daughter and refusing to tell me how she is: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5012900121935872/am-overreacting-here.

  the build up to my solicitors visit: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/6284953638666240/solicitors-appontment-tomorrow-advice-appreciated.

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  nice one emperor. can i ask how you found out about that particular law practice ?

  and--without wishing to appear rude--what did that appointment cost you? PM me if you prefer.

  i would think it very useful to retain their details in case any other UK members need their services.
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  Were These People “Demonized” or Simply Mentally Ill?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  it seems that every congregation had a problem with people being affected by the demons.

  looking back i have to wonder was it that more people were emotionally or mentally unbalanced?

  or they simply off their medications or were they in need of meds?.

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  when i overheard my bat shit crazy loon mother in law telling my kids about demons i hit the roof. i had been brought up on that nonsense. the stuff of kids nightmares.

  even my old dad used to believe in demons--and loved to tell 3rd hand stories he'd heard of other equally daft dubs. a broom stick chasing a brother was the best. i laughed till i cried.
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  Am I Overreacting Here?

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  let's call him "dave".. dave: hello?.

  dave: we dont have to tell you how she is.

  dave: <her mother> has custody.

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  its all about control freakery. dubs just love shunning--it really strokes their self centered attitude. so if they can rub your nose in it--by excluding you from their sweet little holier than thou family get-togethers--it bloats their religious cult mindset.

  just let them get on with it..dont do anything that sets them against you even more. your daughter is right in the middle of it. not her chosing..not yet.
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  Am I Overreacting Here?

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  let's call him "dave".. dave: hello?.

  dave: we dont have to tell you how she is.

  dave: <her mother> has custody.

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  stan livedeath

  my son--42 this year--d/f'd some years back--we have since developed a close relationship...

  -----fought tooth and nail to maintain contact with his 2 kids from his first marriage. by all accounts his ex is a serious nutter--ideal dubette. he maintains his kids...courtesy of the child support agency ( widely hated in the UK )

  i recently found out he has spent £40 grand !! all told in legal fees court costs etc.

  his ex sold their house--and moved a fair distance from him--making access visits a real problem; then a few months ago his kids ( now 15 and 13 ) have told him they dont want to see him any more.

  the only positive thing about this is he can see all too clearly the problems i went through..a case of history repeating itself.